The holiday season brings with it a cascade of traditions, each carrying its unique significance and charm. For me, it’s not about bustling family gatherings or elaborate feasts; instead, it’s about the quiet joy of curling up and losing myself in the warmth of romantic movies. Starting the day after Thanksgiving and stretching to Christmas, my tradition is simple: one romantic movie every day, culminating in The Family Man starring Nicolas Cage on Christmas Day.
This tradition is more than just a way to pass the time—it’s a way to create a sense of connection and warmth that feels deeply personal and fulfilling. Growing up in a dysfunctional household, the holidays often lacked the hallmark experiences people tend to celebrate. My dad was wonderful, but family holidays weren’t our thing—unless you count my mom hosting boisterous gambling sessions at home, which hardly evoked the spirit of togetherness.
So, I found my way.
The Magic of Romantic Movies
Romantic movies during the holidays fill a void for me, and I’ve come to embrace this as something entirely valid and even beautiful. These films often feature stories woven with love, personal growth, and, perhaps most importantly, a wholesome family dynamic that feels both comforting and aspirational. Watching characters find love, reconnect with family, and create meaningful traditions gives me a sense of warmth and belonging.
From classics like Love Actually and While You Were Sleeping to heartwarming Hallmark favorites, each movie is like a small gift I give myself—a reminder that love, kindness, and togetherness are worth cherishing, even if they come in unconventional forms.
Why The Family Man Is the Perfect Finale
Ending my tradition with The Family Man is intentional. It’s a movie that resonates deeply with me. Nicolas Cage’s character, Jack Campbell, experiences a life he didn’t choose but discovers the beauty of family, love, and connection. It’s a poignant reminder of what truly matters, especially during the holidays. The film’s themes of second chances and rediscovering priorities hit home, wrapping up my tradition with a note of hope and gratitude.
The Cozy Comfort It Brings
Creating this tradition is my way of redefining the holidays on my terms. Something is soothing about the predictability of these movies—the snowy settings, warm lighting, and heartfelt moments transport me to a world where things are simpler, love conquers all, and family feels like home.
For me, it’s not just about escapism; it’s about finding a form of joy that feels authentic. It’s a way to fill the silence, to ease the ache of what was missing growing up, and to remind myself that love and warmth can exist—even if it’s just on the screen.
Your Holiday Traditions
Maybe you’ve had picture-perfect holidays, or maybe, like me, you’ve had to create your own. Either way, there’s something special about finding rituals that speak to your soul. My tradition is about reclaiming the holidays, making them mine, and finding peace in the glow of love stories.
If you’re looking for a way to add coziness to your holiday season, consider giving yourself the gift of a romantic movie marathon. Who knows? It might just become your favorite tradition too.
